Let’s be real. Figuring out how to prep Dad for family photos can be the trickiest part of planning a session. Getting the date on the calendar is one thing. Getting Dad to show up with a smile and maybe even tuck in his shirt? A little more work. A little trickier.
Over the years, I’ve photographed all kinds of dads. The ones who are totally into it, the ones who would rather be anywhere else, and the ones who end up secretly having a blast. If your partner falls in the “do I really have to” category, here are a few gentle tricks that make photo day feel less like a chore and more like a win.
Give him a heads-up
Nobody likes surprises at 8 a.m. on a weekend. Let him know the plan. What time, how long, what to wear. Keep it short, sweet, and on his calendar.
Let it be chill : Make Dad Comfortable During Family Photos
How to Prep Dad for Family Photos
This is not about stiff poses or forced smiles. It is about the messy, meaningful, everyday moments you share as a family. That hug your toddler always goes in for. The sideways glance your teen gives. That kind of connection matters more than posed perfection.
You can also let him know it will not take all day. I plan sessions with intention so we can make the most of your time and still capture the joy, the chaos, and the love.
Sweeten the deal
Coffee stop on the way? Game time after? His favorite takeout for dinner? Whatever speaks his love language, use it. Bonus tip, show him the photos when they are ready. That usually seals the deal for next year.
If you have been wondering how to prep Dad for family photos without stress or pushback, these simple ideas are a great place to start.
I promise to guide you both gently, keep it light, and make sure no one feels awkward. Want a session everyone can actually enjoy? You can check out this to know more about planning your Lake Tahoe family session: https://anniexphoto.com/lake-tahoe-family-photographer/
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